102. #1 4 reasons you haven't found your guy YET

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In order to find a good guy out there, you have to do something to make it happen. I want you to give up on the myth that it’s going to just happen one of these days and get to work. Stop believing things like:

Love happens when you least expect it

It happens when it is meant to be

It will happen if it’s meant to happen

You’ll just go about your business and see what happens.

That might work when you’re younger and surrounded by single age appropriate men but it’s terrible advice when you’re in your 40s and up, so cut it out.

You need to be meeting new men regularly and the best way to do that is to get on a dating app. So just freaking do it.

And do it with a great profile and work on your dating skills.

If you’re hoping to just luck into this, you are literally shooting yourself in the foot and I don’t want this for you.

You have to actually try to meet people.

I want you to take this as seriously as you would a job search, financial or fitness goal. Make a plan to get what you want in this world and then put it into action.

I have an amazing resource that can help you write a great profile in just a couple of hours.

It’s called “Perfect Profile Toolkit” and it’s available now at a fraction of the cost of working with me as your coach.

If you’ve been wanting to work with me but not sure about taking the plunge, it’s a great introduction to my work.

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