83. Are you a lone wolf?

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You’ve listened to podcasts, read books, maybe even taken a few classes, but you still haven’t found your guy.

You think if you just hang in there a while longer, you’ll meet the right person.

And you’ll really try harder.

You’ll go back on the dating apps, polish up your profile, be less picky, stop wasting time with the wrong men.

You know what’s keeping you single and you’re determined to make the necessary changes.

It will be different this time.

So you go off into the dating world with renewed hope and how long does it take for the same thing to happen?

If you’re anything like me, not very long at all.

And there you are. Again.

If this is you, it’s ok. It was me for so very long and I finally figured it out and married a great guy.

So can you.

But I will tell you this; the fastest, easiest, least painful way to take this journey is with support from an expert.

Knowledge without application simply isn’t enough to move the needle when it comes to dating effectively.

You may finally be able to do this on your own successfully at some point, but it will take so much longer and be so much harder if you do.

I was single for 20 years and I still ended up getting support. A lot of it.

And while I did learn a lot, I do wish I hadn’t been so stubborn about asking for help.

Working with coaches helped me to actually apply all the things I’d learned effectively instead of guessing, being confused and repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

It was literally like hopping onto an airplane and flying to my destination instead of hobbling around in the woods barefoot.

I was able to see very clearly how I was creating my own horrible dating results, pick a better man who was available for the kind of relationship I wanted and actually find him attractive even though he wasn’t my “type”.

With support I was able to navigate that budding relationship so that it was a healthy one that resulted in a beautiful marriage instead of another heartbreak.

All of this happened relatively quickly once I pulled out all the stops and committed to seriously working on learning how to date.

This is possible for anyone who is willing to do this work.

I help my own clients do this all day long.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN.