95. Do you have dating fatigue?

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Is dating getting more exhausting and annoying by the minute?

Are you constantly frustrated with the entire thing and ready to throw in the towel?

Do you cut off men quickly, telling yourself you’re saving time, but then there’s no one left to date?

You may have dating fatigue.

I’ve so been there.

But this mindset is counterproductive because:

It makes dating feel awful

You generally come off as a sourpuss and terrify good men

It makes the entire process take even LONGER

What’s a girl to do?

Assume good intent whenever possible.

You don’t have to tolerate a bunch of nonsense and date complete derelicts, but taking a deep breath and assuming good intentions on the part of other humans will usually work out in your favor.

Stop looking for things to be offended about or writing men off at the drop of a hat.

Stop complaining about how awful dating is to anyone who will listen.

Instead, cultivate a trust that things are going to work out for you, there are great guys out there and you’re going to find one and every single man you interact with is truly doing the best he can and going for what he wants. Just like you are.

I promise you that none of these men are out there plotting to hurt you personally or ruin your dating experience. They’re just going about their business.

When you truly embrace this mindset, you will relax and stop taking everything so personally. Your shoulders will drop and you’ll become way more fun to spend time with and date.

And you will meet more men and have better interactions with them.

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