89. Find a man who wants what you want

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How many times have you heard about a man falling in love with a woman and completely doing a 180 on his entire life?

He quits robbing banks, sleeping around, living in his mother’s basement or whatever and turns into a stand up guy who promptly marries the long-suffering woman who believed in him or played hard to get or whatever thing she did that made her so special that he just had to change for her?

Please excuse me while I roll my eyes and go throw up.

Because this is utter nonsense and I don’t want you believing it for a minute.

It’s the stuff of Hollywood and fiction, not real life.

And since we live in the real world, I want to help you get what you want in the here and now, not just in your fantasies.

Getting into a committed relationship is not about being special enough to a man for him to fall in love with you and abandon whatever it is that he thought he wanted before he met you.

So instead of trying to be the most special person in the universe, I would like you to focus on finding a man who shares your relationship goals.

This is great news, because it is much easier to do than becoming the most special person in the universe.

Please don’t romanticize the abandonment of your dreams for your life in the name of love.

I don’t encourage you to do this and I certainly don’t want you to expect men to do this for you.

You’ll never be “special” enough to completely change a man’s agenda or his dreams for his life.

This is an unhealthy myth perpetuated by Hollywood and chick flicks.

So, save yourself a world of trouble and go find a man whose dreams align with yours. It’s so much easier and more fun.

And you actually have a way better shot at succeeding if you do this.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN.