86. How serious are you about finding love?

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I have a question for you today.

How serious are you about finding a wonderful man to share your life with?

What are you willing to do to make it happen?

Do you think things like:

It would be nice if it happened

One of these days, I’ll just meet someone

I don’t need a man, but I’d like it if one just landed in my life somehow

These thoughts are passive and are not likely to get you the results you’re hoping for.

What is so romantic about not getting what you want in life?

Do you really want to find your forever man? If so, when would you like this to happen?

If the answer is yes, and anytime in the very near future, I want to encourage you to make a plan for yourself to achieve this goal.

There is plenty you can do to put yourself in a position to find your guy.

You need to be crystal clear about what you want.

Decide on your priorities.

Get in front of as many new men as possible, including getting on a dating site/app.

Show up regularly and talk to men.

Vet men for your relationship goals.

Go on dates.

Navigate the dating process so that you end up in a relationship.

This is not a passive process. It will likely be some work and push you well outside your comfort zone.

And that is OK.

If you want to find your guy, I want you to make a commitment to do these things for yourself.

Waiting, wishing and hoping is not working and it is very unlikely that it ever will.

So please commit to making a plan for yourself and carrying it out if you are serious about finding love.

And if you’re not serious about it, that is totally fine.

Just admit to yourself that it’s not that important to you enough to take seriously and put some effort into, and you’re fine with it not happening.

Which is way better than thinking you’re serious about it, but not doing anything to back it up.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN.