31.  Men you should stop seeing immediately

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I have 20 years of dating experience and another 9 years of coaching experience behind me, and experience has taught me that there are men you should stop seeing immediately if you want to get into a long term relationship.

Here they are:

Anyone who doesn’t share your relationship goals

Anyone who issues you a disclaimer

Anyone who doesn’t follow up within a day or 2 after a date

Anyone who doesn’t want to be your boyfriend after 8 weeks

Men are most excited about you in the beginning. I can’t even count how many times I’ve seen women hang in there for weeks, months or even years hoping to regain the connection they had at the beginning. 

It’s not coming back.

A guy who’s in it to win it wants to spend time with you, shares your relationship goals and wants you all to himself. He’s contacting you regularly and the relationship is escalating, not flatlining or declining.

If you want to hang in there and watch your connection die a slow death, you’re free to do so, but it’s tough on your heart and your self esteem.

I recommend cutting your losses and getting back out there dating new men ASAP so that you can find a man who adores you. 

He’s out there.

If you’re ready to get out there and date, you’ll need an amazing profile. 

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