81. How to shop for undervalued men

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This week, we’re continuing our discussion on shopping for men.

This is the final episode in a 4 part series, so go back and listen to the first 3 if you haven’t yet.

Last week I talked about how to evaluate the men who reach out to you based on their availability for a relationship and their character.

Specifically, you’re seeking a man who wants the kind of relationship you want.

This matters so much more than what his job title is, how good his pictures are or how tall he is.

When you vet men for this trait instead of the superficial ones most women value, a whole new world of possibilities will open up to you.

There are so many men who are largely ignored on dating sites and apps because they are seen as ordinary, boring, too eager and other such nonsense.

These men have no game. Which makes them perfect.

Ordinary, boring and too eager are fantastic.

Most people are pretty ordinary overall, which is why ordinary means ordinary.

If you want excitement, create an exciting life for yourself or just watch a movie. Your excitement should not be supplied by dating drama.

Men who are eager actually like you. Dating men who actually like you is generally a good idea.

And why on earth would you want a man with “game”?????

In addition to there being a huge number of overlooked men on the dating sites/apps (which have more men than women on them to begin with), these men are thrilled to hear from you and date you and they will treat you like gold.

This is so refreshing if you’re used to being ghosted, broken up with or just flat out treated poorly by the “Mr. All That” type men you find usually find attractive.

Let’s redefine what you see as “attractive” so that you can have a better dating experience.

Good men are an acquired taste, and once you adjust your palate, you’ll wonder what you ever saw in those other guys.

They are online dating’s equivalent of junk food or even outright poison.

Ordinary, boring relationship-minded men are the best deal going and the dating platforms are full of them.

They are a great deal and easy to find.

And once you do, you’re really not going to have to work that hard. They will almost always be thrilled to have found you, treat you well and want a relationship with you.

Your biggest challenge will be not to throw him overboard because you think you can do better, he is too ordinary, boring, or eager.

If you manage not to do that, you’ll be in the relationship you’ve been wanting all along!

Congratulate yourself and drop me a line. I’d love to hear the good news.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN.