82. Why do I have to do so much more work than most people?

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Your bestie has been married since college.

Your colleague went on Match.com and got 3 dates her first week.

Your college roommate married a great guy even though she partied all through her 20’s and has never been promoted.

Meanwhile, you listen to podcasts, gorge on self-help books, take all the workshops and come up empty handed.

Why don’t other people have to work so hard to find love?

And what about the men, why aren’t they doing any freaking work??

I hear you.

It feels really frustrating to think that you have to do more than other people to get the things that you want.

I have definitely been there.

I was relationship-challenged until well into my 40’s and it was not fair at all.

But fair or not, I really wanted to have a wonderful relationship and get married and it showed no signs of actually happening unless something changed drastically.

And I finally came to the conclusion that that something had to be me.

I was the one who wanted the result you see.

So even though life will probably never be fair, you can ask yourself if you really want to find a great guy.

And if you do, I suggest that you do everything in your power to make it happen for yourself.

You deserve to have a great life and make it everything you want it to be.

It’s up to you to do the work to make it happen, and when you decide to roll up your sleeves and get to it, you have a much better shot at success.

So instead of asking yourself why you have to do the work, try asking yourself what work you can do next to get what you want.

And then go do it.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

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