96. Are you attracted to unavailable men?

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Unavailable men are like the junk food of dating.

If you’ve ever tried to quit anything that’s bad for you, you know how hard it is to change your preferences from things that are bad to you to things that are good for you.

It involves work, but it can be done.

The same goes for dating.

You simply must change your preferences if you’re ever going to get different results with dating.

Because dating based on attraction alone is not working for you if the only men you find attractive are not available.

You need to question everything you believe and hold dear if you are to overcome this, but it’s worth it.

Instead of only dating men you’re attracted to and then trying to change them, which is a ton of work and completely ineffective.

Put that amount of work into changing yourself, your ideas about who you should be with and your preferences.

Both are hard to do, but only one has any chance of working.

It’s much easier to change yourself than another person.

If you’re to have any chance of a happy relationship, you need to start by dating better men, and that starts with actually finding them attractive.

We don’t think that our preferences are learned behaviors, but they are. We learn to prefer unavailable men and we can unlearn it.

Just like you unlearned how to prefer cigarettes, drinking, junk food, sugar.

If you’ve ever quit anything in your life, you know what this is like.

You can apply the same concepts to quitting unavailable men and enjoy way better results.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

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